In Healing after Parent Loss in Childhood and Adolescence: Therapeutic Interventions and Theoretical Considerations, experts explore the varied, often complex, and always tragic circumstances under which young people face losing a parent. Profound grief and feelings of powerlessness may accompany loss of a parent at any age, but distinctly so when such loss is experienced during formative years. Whenever these individuals seek help, therapists must be psychically prepared to enter into arenas of trauma, bereavement, and mourning. The children, teens, and adults presented are diverse in age, culture/ethnicity, and socioeconomic status. A diverse group of contributors showcase a wide range of effective approaches-from traditionally structured short- and long-term psychotherapies and psychoanalysis, to psycho-educational, supportive, and preventive interventions. The writers in this volume do not shy away from tough matters such as urban violence, AIDS, and war; they address concerns practicing clinicians face, such as when to work with children, adolescents, and adults individually, and when and how to involve their surviving parents and families. Included in this book are issues related to the self-care and professional development needs of therapists who take on this difficult but essential work, including peer support and supervision. This volume is likely to spark important re-examinations across all fields of mental health practice. It will equip and empower clinicians of all kinds who undertake work with those who are grieving. Healing after Parent Loss in Childhood and Adolescence promises to be a vital and stimulating read for supervisors, teachers, and trainers of child, adolescent, and family clinicians.
Foreword Nancy McWilliams Part I: Overview 1: Loss of a Parent During Childhood and Adolescence: A Prismatic Look at the Literature K. Mark Sossin, Yelena Bromberg, & Diana Haddad Part II: Therapy in the Office with Children and Their Caregivers 2: "Do You Know Anyone Who is Dead?" A Four Year Old Boy Comes to Understand the Unexpected Loss of His Father in the Context of Culture Luz Towns-Miranda 3. Walking in Their Shoes: Therapeutic Journeys with Young Girls who Lost Mothers JoAnn Ponder 4: "My Daddy is a Star in the Sky": Understanding and Treating Traumatic Grief in Early Childhood Chandra Ghosh Ippen, Alicia F. Lieberman, & Joy D. Osofsky Part III: Therapy in the Office with Adolescents 5: A Terrible Thing Happened on the Way to Becoming a Girl: Transgender Trauma, Parental Loss, and Recovery Diane Ehrensaft 6: Mourning Childhood Loss in Adolescence: An Indirect Approach to Feelings Daniel Gensler 7: Revisiting, Repairing and Restoring: The Developmental Journey of a Bereaved Adolescent Norka T. Malberg Part IV: Therapy in the Office with Emerging and Older Adults after Earlier Loss of a Parent 8: All You Need is Love: Primary Paternal Preoccupation Seth Aronson 9. Death and a Daughter's Diary Billie Ann Pivnick 10. Mourning a Ghost: A Challenge for Holocaust Child Survivors Eva Fogelman Part V: Innovative Applications in Groups, Consultations and Court Assessments 11. When the Context Shifts: A Child Therapist Helping Children in Forensic Systems Who Have Lost a Parent Richard Ruth 12. Maintaining Hope in the Face of Despair: The Transference-Countertransference Matrix in Treating Adolescents Coping with Traumatic Parental Losses Etty Cohen 13. Take Me to the Moon and Wait: A Model for Accompanying Families with Young Children Through Parental Illness, Death and Mourning Ariane Schwab Hug and Daniel S. Schechter 14. Father Quest and Linking Objects: A Story of the American World War II Orphans Network (AWON) and Palestinian Orphans Vamik D. Volkan 15. Death of a Father on September 11, 2001: Video-Informed Consultations K. Mark Sossin, Phyllis Cohen, & Beatrice Beebe About the Editors and Contributors Index
Healing After Parent Loss in Childhood and Adolescence provides a welcome addition to the therapeutic literature in an area that affects many children, adolescents, and even adults but that does not always get as much attention as it deserves. * Journal of the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry * This thoughtful and compassionate book provides invaluable insights into the therapeutic process for facilitating healing for young people who lose a parent. Guided by a psychodynamic perspective, the book does a wonderful job of integrating theory and clinical material. The cases are presented in a powerful and poignant fashion and bring to life the complex phenomenology of this traumatic loss as well as strategies for enabling diverse children and adolescents to progress developmentally in an adaptive way after their parent dies. -- Nadine J. Kaslow, PhD, Emory University This is one of those rare books that clinicians will return to many times over for insight, wisdom, and comfort in their work with grieving children, adolescents, and adults. The individual contributions are noteworthy for the depth of exploration of the complexities of mourning the death of a parent, whether anticipated or unexpected. The breadth of the clinical material and the contributors' thoughtful approaches to this difficult work strikingly demonstrate that, in this exemplary case, the whole is truly greater than the sum of its impressive parts. -- Toni V. Heineman, PhD, A Home Within The editors have brought together a moving collection of clinically deep and sensitive papers about loss and mourning in childhood and adolescence. So often, even as children struggle with their own confusion, despair, and sadness, they also show the adults around them how to mourn if only we would stop and listen. These remarkable essays, each beautifully giving voice to children's stories in the face of loss, calls all of us to pause and listen, look within ourselves, and embrace those memories and stories our children create. -- Linda C. Mayes, MD, Yale Child Study Center